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Posted by Marge Bouvier Simpson - 5 hours ago
(Yesterday, 10:07 AM)LastWillow Wrote: Hello all I realized I posted my intro/request for verification in the wrong area! Apologies I’m a bit rusty when it comes to forums these days. Please feel free to delete/disregard my still pending post on messages from members.

Greetings any and all reading this. I’m women in my early twenty’s who’s decided to seek a place like this out after my older brother(whom is autistic) quite suddenly came out as trans. He has shown 0 interest in feminine things as a child and as an adult, 0 feminine traits, 0 signs of being uncomfortable in his body, quite the opposite actually—so it’s safe to say this is a very new and likely heavily influenced thing. He now has an obsession with shaving his legs, and body hair in general, fixated on revealing women’s clothing and femboy+trans content on the internet. There is no doubt that autogynephilia has a large role to play in his case, and after a lot of reflection I’ve come to the realization he suffers with a particularly unhealthy fixation on me, my mannerisms, my clothes, even my feminine hygiene. I’m currently unable to get away from this situation and would really appreciate a place where people can understand what I’m going through and perhaps even give me some advice. In return I have a fair bit of insight and experience to offer others here, especially for parents. I know the type of cult that sweeps kids and vulnerable people away into its sadly harmful ideology. I’ve seen it happen, and am currently seeing it happen right in front of me again. Not only that, I was almost a victim of it myself. Being a girl who showed some tomboy traits surrounded by girls who called themselves trans, my kind but very misinformed mother started the steps to have me medically transitioned at an alarmingly young age. I am happy to be able to say that I saved myself.

I hope my story might help someone out, I’d love to go into more detail on the main forum, thank you for taking the time to read. Heart

Hi, and welcome. Thanks for joining. Your account has been activated. I'm sorry you're stuck living with your brother, for now at least. My advice is to draw boundaries and be firm about it. Tell him you are a private person and you don't share your feminine hygiene routine or products with anyone so it's nothing personal. If needed perhaps you could also tell him you find it disturbing when anyone mimicks you and there are no set behaviors for males and females. If needed put a lock on your bedroom door. I'm sure you don't want to provoke him, but hopefully you could play it off as simply being very private and not wanting anyone (not just him) to access your personal belonings.

You can now access the members' area. Thanks again for joining.
Posted by LastWillow - Yesterday, 10:07 AM
Hello all I realized I posted my intro/request for verification in the wrong area! Apologies I’m a bit rusty when it comes to forums these days. Please feel free to delete/disregard my still pending post on messages from members.

Greetings any and all reading this. I’m women in my early twenty’s who’s decided to seek a place like this out after my older brother(whom is autistic) quite suddenly came out as trans. He has shown 0 interest in feminine things as a child and as an adult, 0 feminine traits, 0 signs of being uncomfortable in his body, quite the opposite actually—so it’s safe to say this is a very new and likely heavily influenced thing. He now has an obsession with shaving his legs, and body hair in general, fixated on revealing women’s clothing and femboy+trans content on the internet. There is no doubt that autogynephilia has a large role to play in his case, and after a lot of reflection I’ve come to the realization he suffers with a particularly unhealthy fixation on me, my mannerisms, my clothes, even my feminine hygiene. I’m currently unable to get away from this situation and would really appreciate a place where people can understand what I’m going through and perhaps even give me some advice. In return I have a fair bit of insight and experience to offer others here, especially for parents. I know the type of cult that sweeps kids and vulnerable people away into its sadly harmful ideology. I’ve seen it happen, and am currently seeing it happen right in front of me again. Not only that, I was almost a victim of it myself. Being a girl who showed some tomboy traits surrounded by girls who called themselves trans, my kind but very misinformed mother started the steps to have me medically transitioned at an alarmingly young age. I am happy to be able to say that I saved myself.

I hope my story might help someone out, I’d love to go into more detail on the main forum, thank you for taking the time to read. Heart
Posted by Marge Bouvier Simpson - 07-Dec-2025, 02:09 AM
(06-Dec-2025, 08:21 AM)jennmcclain17 Wrote: I have registered and confirmed my email but I am still not seeing anything outside of the public board

Hi, Jennmcclain17,

Apologies for the delay, and thanks for your patience. Your account has been activated. Welcome.
Posted by jennmcclain17 - 06-Dec-2025, 08:21 AM
I have registered and confirmed my email but I am still not seeing anything outside of the public board
Posted by Marge Bouvier Simpson - 07-Nov-2025, 10:27 PM
(07-Nov-2025, 05:47 PM)compassionandheart Wrote: Hello,

My 13 year old kiddo is identifying as a trans boy for the last 6 months. Could really use the chance to connect to other parents. Thank you.

Hi, compassionateheart,

I hope you'll consider registering as a member of the forum. That way you can read and post in the members-only area. 

To join, click on the word "register" in the black bar at the top of the screen. Follow the prompts, and then a board administrator will activate your account.

Welcome and best wishes,

Marge
Posted by compassionandheart - 07-Nov-2025, 05:47 PM
Hello,

My 13 year old kiddo is identifying as a trans boy for the last 6 months. Could really use the chance to connect to other parents. Thank you.
Posted by ZMiami - 03-Oct-2025, 03:32 PM
Thank you Humingbird, Marge, and everyone here! Your kindness and support meant a lot!
Posted by Marge Bouvier Simpson - 03-Oct-2025, 01:36 PM
(03-Oct-2025, 05:04 AM)ZMiami Wrote: Hi All,
I am a distressed dad seeking help for my 12-year-old daughter. I registered an account today and made a reply post, but it seems my account is not activated (it says email has already been validated). Can anyone let me know how to activate it? Thank you!

Hello, ZMiami,

I just activated your account. Sorry for the delay. It seems I just missed you last night when I checked the board one last time before turning in.

Welcome. I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. Hang in there.
Posted by Hummingbird - 03-Oct-2025, 05:53 AM
(03-Oct-2025, 05:04 AM)ZMiami Wrote: Hi All,
I am a distressed dad seeking help for my 12-year-old daughter. I registered an account today and made a reply post, but it seems my account is not activated (it says email has already been validated). Can anyone let me know how to activate it? Thank you!

An admin has to activate your account.  That should happen within a day or two.  Hang in there.
Posted by ZMiami - 03-Oct-2025, 05:04 AM
Hi All,
I am a distressed dad seeking help for my 12-year-old daughter. I registered an account today and made a reply post, but it seems my account is not activated (it says email has already been validated). Can anyone let me know how to activate it? Thank you!
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