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My son is a disabled autistic man. He may be in his 20s but he has never lived on his own. At first he came to me and declared he was a femboy who loved girls. But now he has crossed the line into the dangerous transgender ideology. He is angrily asking me to call him a she/her and wants to go by a different name. Anytime I mis gender him he flips out on me. When I use his real name he completely ignores me until I use this new fake name. I went 2 full days without talking to him simply because I wouldn't use what he calls the right name. He has demanded I do his makeup but I told him I do not do makeup for boys. Last week I found out he was trying to get on HRT so I took away his phone. Yesterday he came to me crying saying I'm abusing him by taking away his phone and not using his new name/pronouns. He thinks I'm denying his true self. But I know his true self is that as a man not a woman. I fear I am losing my once sweet son to this new thing. Someone anyone please help me.
Posts: 8
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Joined: May 2026
I really hope to have access to the main board soon I want to discuss my son and his history in more detail but I feel as if I should wait until I've been formally accepted. All of this is heavily weighing on me
Hello all. Posting here to hopefully be verified and to confirm I’m not a troll.
Not going to go into extreme detail here, as I’d prefer to do so in a more controlled space. I’m a women in my early twenty, and not a parent of a youth struggling with transgenderism. I’m instead someone who’s struggled with my identity in the past. Though all be it for a very short period of time and never fully believed it myself.(I was terribly young, and terribly manipulated) But what’s truly made me seek this place out, was after my older brother come out as trans earlier today. My brothers is currently on what some folks call the incel to trans pipeline, a male exclusive trend I’ve noted that’s pretty much exclusive to autistic and socially isolated young men. My brother most definitely is under the autogynephilia umbrella, but as stated earlier I will go into more detail about my story and current predicament in the members only area.
I’m looking forward to possibly being able to add something to the conversation that might be lacking currently, thank you for your time.
