finding reliable medical practitioners

[wilkinmg]

Hi, I'm looking for a therapist in MA who can help with our 12-year-old child. Starting with teachers at the start of middle school asking for pronouns in class, we've been down a path of pronouns and name change, self-harm, hospitalization, and inpatient therapy that lasted weeks. School, doctor, and therapist have all led us down a path of social transition that we feel very uneasy about. We can't seem to find resources to help with an alternative approach focused on or exploration of what is leading us to where we are right now vs. starting immediately with affirmation. It's been a nightmare and we need help.